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Women Don’t Masturbate as Much as Men — Or Do They?
Unpacking the Myths and Realities of Female Self-Pleasure
Masturbation has long been a topic of secrecy, shame, and misinformation — especially when it comes to women. The common belief that men masturbate far more frequently than women has been ingrained in cultural narratives, leaving female self-pleasure largely ignored, misunderstood, or even stigmatized. But is this assumption accurate, or is it yet another myth fueled by outdated gender stereotypes?
The truth is that women masturbate just as much as men — or at least they would if society allowed them to explore their sexuality without judgment. While statistics suggest a gap in reported masturbation habits, there’s more to the story than meets the eye. Let’s break down the myths, explore the science, and uncover the reasons behind this persistent belief.
The Origins of the Myth That Women Masturbate Less
Throughout history, female sexuality has been controlled, censored, and often reduced to its reproductive function. While men’s sexual desires have been normalized — if not glorified — women’s have been overlooked, downplayed, or outright denied.
