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When Intimacy Fades: Understanding Why Your Wife Has Stopped Wanting Sex

Mary S. Cooke
6 min read6 days ago

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Is Your Marriage in a “Dead Bedroom” Phase?

“My wife and I haven’t had sex in years. She just lost interest. I don’t know what to do. Is this just what happens in long-term relationships?”

If you’ve found yourself in a sexless marriage, you’re not alone. Many men experience this struggle, but few openly talk about it. Instead, they assume that women naturally lose interest in sex over time or that biology dictates their dwindling desire.

But here’s the truth: Women are not wired to hate sex. They don’t biologically “age out” of intimacy. If your wife has opted out of sex, it’s a sign that something deeper is going on.

The question is — are you willing to find out what that is?

This article will explore why some women stop wanting sex, what that means for your relationship, and how you can navigate this difficult situation with understanding and action.

Why Women Lose Interest in Sex (Hint: It’s Not Just Biology)

When a woman withdraws from sex, it’s rarely a simple issue of lost attraction or lack of interest. There are layers of emotional, psychological, and even physical reasons that contribute to her reluctance. Let’s break down…

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Mary S. Cooke
Mary S. Cooke

Written by Mary S. Cooke

Exploring the art of well-being, the science of intimacy, Health and Relationships and the secrets of financial freedom.

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