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The Female Pleasure Gap: Why Women Orgasm Less & How to Fix It

Mary S. Cooke
6 min read6 days ago

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Why Are Women Still Struggling to Orgasm?

Despite living in an era of sexual liberation, there’s one gap that stubbornly remains — the orgasm gap. Women are significantly less likely to climax during partnered sex compared to men. Research shows that while 95% of heterosexual men report reaching orgasm during sex, only 65% of heterosexual women say the same. That’s a staggering 30% difference.

This isn’t just a fluke or a biological inevitability — it’s a systemic issue rooted in misinformation, societal conditioning, and bedroom habits that prioritize male pleasure.

But here’s the good news: this gap can be closed. And not only that, but when women experience fulfilling, consistent orgasms, relationships improve, self-confidence soars, and intimacy deepens.

So why does the pleasure gap exist, and more importantly, how can we fix it? Let’s break it down.

Why Women Orgasm Less Than Men

1. The Clitoris Is Still a Mystery (Even to Many Partners)

The clitoris is the most powerful pleasure center in the female body, with over 8,000 nerve endings (double that of the penis). Yet, many people still don’t understand how it works.

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Mary S. Cooke
Mary S. Cooke

Written by Mary S. Cooke

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