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Size Doesn’t Equal Satisfaction: The Truth About Penis Size and Pleasure

Mary S. Cooke
7 min readFeb 16, 2025

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Breaking the Myth That Bigger Means Better in Bed

For years, men and women alike have been bombarded with the idea that a bigger penis automatically translates to better sex. It’s a belief reinforced by pop culture, adult films, and locker-room talk — a myth that has planted deep insecurities in men while distorting women’s expectations of pleasure.

But let’s be clear: size alone does not guarantee satisfaction. The reality of what makes sex truly pleasurable is far more complex and nuanced than just inches. Factors like technique, emotional connection, and communication play a much bigger role in ensuring a fulfilling intimate experience.

So, why does this myth continue to dominate conversations about sex? And what does science actually say about the link between penis size and sexual pleasure? Let’s explore the facts, break down the misconceptions, and finally put this outdated belief to rest.

Why the Size Obsession Exists

The fixation on penis size is not a modern phenomenon. It has roots in history, culture, and deeply ingrained societal expectations.

The Influence of Pornography

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Mary S. Cooke
Mary S. Cooke

Written by Mary S. Cooke

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