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Sex Positions Men Pretend to Love (But Secretly Hate)

Mary S. Cooke
6 min read2 days ago

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The Positions He’ll Endure But Won’t Admit He’s Not Enjoying

Let’s be real — sex is supposed to be pleasurable for both partners. But while women are often encouraged to speak up about what feels good (or what doesn’t), men tend to stay silent, afraid of sounding unmanly or picky.

The result? Some guys end up suffering through uncomfortable, awkward, or even painful positions just to keep up the illusion that they’re always down for anything. But the truth is, not all sex positions are as enjoyable as porn makes them seem.

So, let’s break the silence and expose the positions men pretend to love — but secretly can’t stand. And don’t worry — I’ll also suggest some better alternatives that will make things more enjoyable for both of you.

1. The Reverse Cowgirl — A Disaster Waiting to Happen

Why He Pretends to Like It

This position is a classic in adult films. The idea is that the woman takes full control, riding him while facing away, giving him a perfect view of her backside. Sounds sexy in theory, right?

Why He Secretly Hates It

Unfortunately, this position is one of the riskiest for men. If you move the wrong…

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Mary S. Cooke
Mary S. Cooke

Written by Mary S. Cooke

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