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How Many Times Is Masturbation Okay? Understanding the Right Balance

Mary S. Cooke
6 min readFeb 18, 2025

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Masturbation is one of the most natural and common human experiences, yet it remains a topic surrounded by myths, taboos, and conflicting opinions. Some believe frequent masturbation is harmful, while others argue it’s a healthy way to explore one’s body and relieve stress. But how much is too much?

The truth is, there’s no universal “magic number” for how often one should or shouldn’t masturbate. The right frequency varies from person to person, depending on physical health, mental well-being, personal satisfaction, and lifestyle. However, excessive masturbation can have physical and psychological effects, while too little (or suppressing it entirely due to guilt or shame) can lead to frustration or an unhealthy relationship with sexuality.

So, let’s break it down: How much masturbation is considered normal? When does it become excessive? And how can you strike the right balance to ensure a healthy sexual routine?

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Mary S. Cooke
Mary S. Cooke

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